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--- On Sun, 24/1/10, Arshad <email2yourfriend@
From: Arshad <email2yourfriend@
Subject: [voiceofaligs] Be practical, know your reality first
To: TheAligarhForum@
Cc: malikwasimahmad@
Date: Sunday, 24 January, 2010, 10:16 PM
Dear All,
Assalamu Alaikum Warahamatullah.
Be practical, know your reality first
Let's try to find out our reality as an individual first. If you think that you know every thing and you know all this already then you can stop reading further this point but remember that the moment this thought comes to our mind we stop learning.
We have to carry out the followings steps in order to find this reality-
Identify 8-10 persons who are near and dear to us, including your spouse and kids off course.
Start interviewing them one by one by asking the following questions-
What are my weak points?
What are my strong points?
Is there something about me which bothers or irritates you?
What is it you are holding back, that you are not willing to tell or you haven't feel free to tell me?
What are the things about me that do not work for you? +ve or –ve.
What are the things about me that work for you? +ve or –ve.
What do you all speak about me when I am not around?
Tell them to be honest and straight in giving the feedback about you. Give them the safe space for true communication. Listen to them from a fresh mind and don't judge or justify. Do not react, just listen and be ready to welcome the reality.
So only the real "you" can do the wonders insha Allah.
Thanks for patiently reading and thinking to implement it.
Best Regards,
Arshad.
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