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How much do you cost?': Shocking hidden camera film shows daily sexual harassment endured by women on Brussels streets
By Tom Goodenough
PUBLISHED: 16:12 GMT, 4 August 2012 | UPDATED: 16:36 GMT, 4 August 2012
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Many women face the daily problem of being jeered at or greeted with cat-calls as they walk down the street.
Fed up of the constant abuse she was suffering, one film-student in Brussels decided to film the comments of passers-by that made walking through the city streets a misery.
The resulting footage paints a shocking picture of the sexism still being endured by many women today.

The disturbing documentary shows the jeering and cat-calls experienced by women on the streets of Brussels
Wolf-whistled and faced with abuse and questions asking her for sex and 'how much do you cost?', Sofie Peeter's film - which she submitted for her final student project - makes for a disturbing account of the everyday sexism on the streets of Brussels.
The Brussels film academy student used a hidden camera to record many of the scenes and also interviewed other students to learn more about their similar experiences.
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The documentary, called 'Femme de la Rue', has now also been broadcast live on Belgian TV - the showing of which started a flood of testimonies from women on Twitter telling of similar experiences.
But the film student who made the documentary says she is hopeful that it can have a positive impact upon reducing sexism and could 'break the silence about the subject and open the dialogue for more mutual understanding and respect.'

The film student who made the film says that she wants to break the silence about the subject

The Brussels film student said that she received up to 80 emails from other women backing up her experiences
Speaking on Belgian TV, she said: 'These advances hurt me a lot and I had the feeling I was on my own.
'Primarily, I would like to see that more women comprehend that they are not the only ones but, this affects a lot of women.'
She said that she received 70-80 testimonies by e-mail corroborating her experiences after putting a request on the internet for other women to get in touch.
Other testimonies from women in the film also back-up Peeters' disturbing account.

The film showing the shocking sexist scenes was recorded on the streets of Brussels in Belgium
'It happens seldom that I walk in the street without anyone bothering me,' said one woman in the film.
'Walking down the street as a woman, you know that the street doesn't belong to you.'
Whilst another said that she changed her walking route and appearance based on the abuse she anticipated.
'I do take it seriously, I am scared. I change the way I dress, the way I walk and how I dress.'
Belgian politicians have responded to the film footage by saying legislation to crack-down on sexual harassment is already being considered.

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> Mba, hidup berpasangan apabila itu nggk bisa mendukung salah satu menjadi manusia yg lebih baik dan berkembang, malah mendegradasikannya - hubungan tersebut jauh dari sakinah. Meneruskannya berarti menzalimi keduanya, kecuali terjadi titik balik perubahan kesadaran.
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> Salam
> Mia
> Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from Sinyal Bagus XL, Nyambung Teruuusss...!
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> -----Original Message-----
> From: "Lina" <linadahlan@...>
> Sender: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Fri, 07 Dec 2012 06:48:26
> To: <wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com>
> Reply-To: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com
> Subject: [wanita-muslimah] Re: Aceng
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> > Poligami sepertinya bukan jawaban yg mesti kita resource, karena:
> > - perempuan Indonesia nggak mau poligami, ini udah terbukti.
> > - perkawinan yg dilanggengkan atas nama "amin bukan iman", nggak membawa "berkah sakinah" sebagai tujuan perkawinan yg sakral. Ini bisa didiskusikan tersendiri.
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> Ane punya sahabat pere. Curhat soal hidup nya. Betapa hancur hatinya ketika mengetahui suaminya mencintai wanita lain pdhal suaminya ini kesehariannya bs dikatakan baik. Mereka sudah 19/20 thn menikah dan punya satu anak yg berusia sekita 18/19 thn. Sahabat ane ini awalnya mengetahui dari SMS suaminya. Setelah di konfirmasi ke suaminya dengan baik2, suaminya juga mengakui dgn baik2 bhw dia mencintai wanita dlm sms itu. Sahabat ane merasa dikhianati. Sahabat ane ini baru mengerti mengapa selama ini suaminya memang tidak pernah mengatakan "I love u" kpdnya. Bahkan kiss her lips juga gak.
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> "Lah, gimana kalian bs punya si Dodi (anak nya)", tanya ane??. Sahabat ane hanya diam. "Trus elo mo ngapain?" tanya ane lagi ? Die malah melanjutkan kisahnya ttg obrolan2 die dgn suaminya ttg wanita tsb. Sepertinya, suami nya serious mencintai wanita tsb dan ingin meminta restu kepadanya kalau dia ingin berpoligamid dengan wanita itu. GUBRAK!!!!!
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> Lalu dia mengaku jujur, bhw dia mengira suaminya seorang yg dah "impoten" krn spt nya selama bertahun2 setelah kelahiran anaknya tidak ada gairah terhadapnya. Bahkand mengecup bibirnya aja gak pernah. Lalu, kenapa skrg tiba2 dia ingin menikah dengan wanita tersebut??? Kalo ditanya kepada suaminya knp dia ingin menikah lagi, ya jawabannya krn dia sayang dan cinta kepada wanita itu yg notabene adalah pacar pertamanya jaman baheula dulu. Kalau ditanya apakah suaminya mencintai dia (sahabat saya), suaminya diam sejenak dan menjawab "Saya sayang kamu, karena kamu wanita baik2 dan telah menemani saya selama ini dengan sabar". Tidak pernah ada masalah berarti diantara sahabat saya dan suaminya selama ini. Hanya saja suaminya terkesan adem. Mereka tidur juga sudah lama tidak se kamar, dan kalopun sekamar tidak pernah terjadi hub intim, tapi sahabat anee menganggap itu hal yg wajar saja. Itu yang di rasa kan oleh sahabat ane.
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> Sahabat ane pernah menuduh suaminya pernah melakukan hub intim dgn wanita itu di masa lalu (krn kok segitu cintanya), tapi suaminyam malahan mengaku bahwa wanita tsb satu2nya pacar yg tidak pernah dia sentuh. Wekkkk!
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> Ane terbengong bengong dah. Aneh ya laki2 itu. Penuh misteri. Ada sesuatu yg dia sembunyikan selama ini. Maksudnya tidak dia ceritakan terus terang kpd istrinya. Mungkin krn dia tak mau menyakiti hati istrinya.
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> Kata sahabat ane,"gw sakit dikhianati tapi gw juga gak bs hidup tanpa dia. Gw takut hidup dalam kesendirian". OMG...
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Skrg mrk memang sdg mengalami degradasi hub. Smg nanti ada titik baliknya. buat shbt ane mungkin berpisah dr suami adl suatu kezaliman
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