Ya ya ya, maksud saya seperti perkawinan yang terjadi di Cianjur antara turis Arab (Timur Tengah)
dengan perempuan Indonesia. Kan di media disebutnya kawin siri. Di Cianjur itu kan juga dinikahkan
oleh penghulu, lalu setelah beberapa bulan/tahun, si laki-laki pulang ke negerinya dan perempuan
ditinggali sejumlah duit.
Di beberapa daerah ada juga kawin kontrak antara perempuan Indonesia dengan laki-laki pekerja
asing. Mereka menjadi suami isteri sah (karena nikah lewat penghulu) selama laki-laki itu bekerja
di Indonesia. Atau untuk kepentingan membeli properti.
Jadi ada perubahan nilai terhadap kesakralan pernikahan menjadi ikatan kontrak, atau dengan
"license" seperti mengemudi mobil saja. Ada masa kedaluwarsanya. Lha kalau sesudah itu masih ingin
berlanjut, apa ya harus nikah lagi, atau cukup mendaftar perpanjangan surat nikah? Kalau semalam
saja barangkali gak perlu surat nikah ya.
KM
----Original Message----
From: soegardi@gmail.com
Date: 06/10/2011 2:38
To: <wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com>
Subj: [wanita-muslimah] Re: Kawin kontrak atau kawin siri untuk dua tahun akan diberlakukan di
Meksiko
1. Kawin kontrak karena tercantum masa berlaku "license" pernikahan selama 2 tahun. Lha kok siri?
Pak KM kawin siri itu apa sih?
Bukannya kawin di bawah tangan, tanpa catatan?
2. Kenapa kok 2 tahun?
Apa ngga bisa dibuat "semalam" saja? hehehe
Atau diperpanjang sekalian 5 tahun bersamaan dengan habisnya SIM,
supaya ngga repot ngurus perpanjangan?
Gereja Katolik pasti gerah dengan gebrakan-gebrakan dewan kota ini,
setelah sebelumnya mengesahkan kawin sesama jenis.
--- In wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com, "Kartono Mohamad" <kmjp47@...> wrote:
>
> Til 2013 do us part? Mexico mulls 2-year marriage
> By Alex Leff | Reuters – Thu, Sep 29, 2011
>
> MEXICO CITY (Reuters) - Mexico City lawmakers want to help newlyweds avoid
> the hassle of divorce by giving them an easy exit strategy: temporary
> marriage licenses.
> Leftists in the city's assembly -- who have already riled conservatives by
> legalizing gay marriage -- proposed a reform to the civil code this week
> that would allow couples to decide on the length of their commitment, opting
> out of a lifetime.
> The minimum marriage contract would be for two years and could be renewed if
> the couple stays happy. The contracts would include provisions on how
> children and property would be handled if the couple splits.
> "The proposal is, when the two-year period is up, if the relationship is not
> stable or harmonious, the contract simply ends," said Leonel Luna, the
> Mexico City assemblyman who co-authored the bill.
> "You wouldn't have to go through the tortuous process of divorce," said Luna
> from the leftist Party of the Democratic Revolution, which has the most
> seats in the 66-member chamber.
> Luna says the proposed law is gaining support and he expects a vote by the
> end of this year.
> Around half of Mexico City marriages end in divorce, usually in the first
> two years.
> The bustling capital, one of the world's largest cities, is much more
> liberal than the rest of the country, where the divorce rate is
> significantly lower although on the rise.
> Abortion is legal in Mexico City, while the Supreme Court ruled this week to
> uphold state laws in Baja California that say life begins at conception.
> Leftist Mayor Marcelo Ebrard, who angered the Catholic Church when he made
> Mexico City the first Latin American city to legalize gay marriage in late
> 2009, announced this month he would soon step down to run for president.
> The church criticized the proposed change.
> "This reform is absurd. It contradicts the nature of marriage," said Hugo
> Valdemar, spokesman for the Mexican archdiocese. "It's another one of these
> electoral theatrics the assembly tends to do that are irresponsible and
> immoral."
> The Church holds considerable sway in the country with the world's second
> largest Catholic population after Brazil.
> (Reporting by Alex Leff; Editing by Cynthia Osterman)
>
> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
>
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